The Sovereign Woman

 What does “success” mean to you? Have you ever considered that it could mean anything other than financial abundance or an impressive sounding title? 

Without self-worth, clarity, and intentionality, it is easy to slip into the trap of unconsciously architecting our lives around the standard definition of success that we’ve been indoctrinated into, never stopping to examine what’s actually true for us. 

We work ourselves to the bone to be successful in the future, meanwhile we are unfulfilled and exhausted in the present. And when we do receive that coveted promotion or bonus we worked so hard for, we too often realize that it came at the expense of our health, relationships, freedom, and/or happiness. We find ourselves hoodwinked by society’s definition of success, feeling resentful and powerless. 

If success to you simply means financial abundance, I am here for it. So long as you choose it and recognize what you’re saying “no” to when you say “yes” to that definition.

If that’s not the extent of your definition, what else does success mean to you? What do you truly desire? What makes you fulfilled and happy? What will feel sustainable and balanced over the long term? What do you want to be your north star? 

You get to decide your own definition, and then you get to architect your life to be aligned with what you desire most. It won’t happen overnight, but you get to carefully construct your house according to the plans you’ve thoughtfully designed. You get to make choices that will bring you closer to your end vision. You get to consider and act in alignment with your “yeses” and your “nos.” 

Because you are a sovereign woman.

So:

What is your definition of success? 

What would true freedom look like? 

What would a life look like where you wake up every day and pinch yourself that this gets to be your life?

Now consider:

Will continuing down the current path get you to your personal definition? 

If not…

What would have to change to get you on the right track? 

What are the biggest fears and excuses that come up for you?

What support would you need in order to be a stand for yourself and what you most desire?

With you on the journey,

Emma x